3 Financial Rules That Should Be Broken

breaking the financial rules

 

As a financial professional and blogger, there are some basic principles I should believe in. But it’s important to set your own path and find what makes you successful.

Plus who doesn’t love being a rebel and forging their own path?! Here are some money rules I believe are meant to be broken:

1. Going on a Financial Diet

The word diet is a four letter word to me. Going on a financial diet isn’t the answer to anything, mostly because you won’t be as successful doing something short term just to get results quick.

For some people diets work in profound ways, but it’s a short term solution to a long-term problem. Becoming intense and getting your life back in order, is definitely an important steps for any financial problem.

But you shouldn’t view it as something you start and stop after a few months or weeks (like crash dieting). That will not bring about a lasting behavioral change, and your habits will remain the same.

Have you ever notice the word DIE in DIET? 

2. Sticking to a Budget

Creating and sticking to a budget is an important part of managing money no doubt about that, but don’t limit yourself to that way of thinking.

Try referring to it as having a spending plan, a goal that you to set each day or month, and hopefully reach within the time allotted.

Using the words spending plan creates a sense of freedom, that you can still spend money on things you need or want as long as it’s within certain guidelines.

A budget comes off like a restriction, and (if you’re like me) you will be more likely to rebel against it and go on spending sprees.

Instead of telling people “it’s not in the budget” you can start saying “it’s not in my spending plan this month”. See, it already sounds like you’re in control of your money.

3. Cutting Out all Non-Essentials

Cable TV, buying a latte, getting an iPhone, and even eating out, are all things that are non-essentials. You don’t NEED them to survive, but you shouldn’t cut out all the extras in life just to survive.

What quality of life is that?

You end up being a hermit, hoarding your cash and never having any fun. It’s important to balance your spending, to keep it under control and adhere to your spending plan.

Eating out once a week, or going to movies with friends sometimes, won’t completely ruin your financial goals.

It’s all about balance and keeping everything in perspective. I enjoy drinking coffee and indulging in a few guilty pleasures, it’s therapeutic and relaxing.

What’s one financial rule you like to break?

Photo Credit: samcaplat

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  • http://www.add-vodka.com Daisy

    I do agree with all of these things, and really do equate finances to dieting. As somebody who has been somewhat successful in weight loss in the past few months, I have found that not eating the foods that I enjoy actually works against me, as opposed to FOR me. Same with spending. If you cut out everything you enjoy, it’s going to backlash.

    • http://carefulcents.com Carrie

      Definitely! It’s like a bing and purge cycle…and that’s really not healthy. For food or finances :)

  • http://senseofcents.blogspot.com/ Michelle

    I agree with you. If you cut out all non-essentials and end up hating life, what’s the point of saving money?

    • http://carefulcents.com Carrie

      Exactly. You will have all this money and no fun…sounds terrible.

  • http://www.thefreefinancialadvisor.com/average-joes-money-blog/ NameAverageJoeMoney

    I’ve always had an appreciation for the Weight Watcher’s system because it’s more about making choices than about a diet. I think if we took this approach and applied it to life, people would do better with money, relationships and food.

    …what’s that I smell? This comment is starting to smell like a new blog post! Inspiration!

    Great topic.

    BTW – my favorite rule to break is the silly “Latte factor.” That thing drives me crazy. I’m with you. I feel warm, fuzzy and absolutely stupid while I’m paying tons of money for a Starbucks coffee. But I’ve organized my financial life so that I can afford silly, expensive coffee once every few weeks.

    …okay, now I’m smelling Pumpkin Spice.

    • http://carefulcents.com Carrie

      Lol :) I’m glad I can inspire blog posts for you.

      I definitely agree with you about the latte factor. I love to hate that rule too. And I actually enjoy spending money on my overpriced cup of Joe (yes I pun intended- AverageJoe) haha

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