How to Quit Your Day Job Gracefully to Start Working From Home

Resigning from my very secure, but very boring, full-time job is something I’ve been thinking about for the past few months. In fact, it’s been on my mind ever since I started freelancing online in July 2014.

But before I talk about how to quit your job gracefully and not burn bridges, let me back up a little bit and introduce myself.

I’m Kayla, a full-time credit analyst at an agricultural lender in rural Kansas. I’m also a part-time retail employee, and an almost full-time freelance writer and virtual assistant.

I started my blog in December 2013 to help me stay accountable as I worked my way out of debt.

Then in July 2014, I got my first two freelance writing jobs. Yes, you read that right. I basically have two full-time jobs and a part-time job. I say “almost full-time freelancer” because that’s the direction I’m headed in but I haven’t quite reached my goal yet.

I’ve been working hard the past few months as a freelance writer and virtual assistant to help pay off my consumer debt. When I first started, I solely thought of this venture as a side hustle.

I just wanted to earn a little extra money to get my debt paid off.

Plus, I loved that people were paying me to do two things I love: write and manage their websites. Fast forward to today and now I’m trying to determine when I’ll take the plunge. I want to quit my 8-5 job and focus solely on my freelance business.

After going back and forth several times, my quitting date was June 1, 2015, despite the fact that I won’t be free from all my debts yet.

Know that timing is everything

Deciding when to quit your full-time job is only part of the equation. As I’m on my journey toward full-time self-employment, my situation is complicated by the fact that I don’t plan to leave my part-time job right away.

Instead, I’d like to take on a few more hours at my part-time job to help make ends meet as I continue to build up my freelance business.

In addition to turning in my resignation at least 30 days in advance at my full-time job, I also need to make sure the manager at my part-time job is aware that I hope to take on more hours.

Typically the retail store where I work hires a new employee to start in mid-May.

My timing needed to be flawless so I don’t have a huge income loss, as I make this transition to self-employment.

As you set your quitting date and begin to determine the details for when and how  you’ll quit your job, it’s important to know that timing is everything.

Here’s how I plan to quit my job gracefully and make sure things go smoothly for everyone involved.

Have a calm conversation with your boss

Talk to your boss as soon as possible, so you give them plenty of time to make a smooth transition. I had a chat with my retail manager very early on to see if increasing my hours was even a possibility.

She is very receptive to me working more hours there after my resignation, and is very sensitive to the fact that this needs to stay hush-hush as I haven’t given notice at my full-time employer yet.

Having that income to help makes ends meet is a crucial part of my plan. The income from that job isn’t large, but a few hundred dollars each month will make a big difference as I continue to build manage the inconsistent income and risk that comes with a freelance business.

Prepare your finances for inconsistent income

Self-employment income is varies from month-to-month and I want mine to be consistently high enough to cover at least my bare-bones budget before I resign from my full-time job.

My business and income has been building each month, but as we’ve all heard, freelancing can be “feast or famine”.

With this in mind, I’ve been putting lots of extra toward my debt and building my emergency fund, and I will continue to do so up until I quit my full-time job.

What steps do you need to take to prepare for this feast and famine cycle of self-employment?

After resigning, I made conservative payments on my debt and put most of the extra money I earn into my emergency fund. This allows me to have a nice buffer in case I ever fall short of my monthly income goal.

I’m also confident that with more hours freed up, because of quitting my full-time job, I’ll be able to continue to grow my freelance business quickly.

Turn in your resignation notice with confidence

The first step when quitting your job is of course, to let your boss or manager know, but then you have to follow through with an actual resignation notice. I have to turn in my resignation notice at least 30 days before my final work date.

So this means I need to have my resignation letter written and turned in by May 1st. If you aren’t sure of the exact process for quitting, check with your HR department or review your employee contract, to make sure you follow the steps correctly.

You don’t want there to be any bad blood when you leave your job.

Follow through and quit your day job gracefully

Resigning from your job can be a pretty sensitive issue. The last thing you want to happen is to have your employer find out from somewhere else that you’re planning to resign.

This can lead to you being fired before you’re really ready to do so. Therefore, you want to make sure you use proper etiquette when you get ready to resign from your job. Here’s how to quit your job gracefully.

1. Be discreet and don’t blab

You should always tell your employer or supervisor you’re resigning before you tell your co-workers or anyone in the general public. In my case, the only person I’ve told about my plan to resign is the manager at my part-time job, because it was vital to my plans to do so.

However, when talking with my manager we discussed the need for keeping this information discreet.

2. Stay professional throughout the process

Have a mature and level-headed conversation with your supervisor to give them your resignation notice. You should also be prepared to tell them a bit about why you’re resigning as they may ask.

Don’t overshare and keep your answer simple with “I just feel that I’m headed in a different direction” type of answer. Thank them for the opportunity and all that you learned at your job and show your appreciation for their mentorship and help.

3. Remain engaged through your last day

Just because you’ve turned in your resignation notice doesn’t mean you should slack on the job. Instead, do your best to remain engaged at your job, and volunteer to train another employee or your replacement, prior to your last day.

Try to have all tasks completed prior to your last day, too. If this isn’t possible, leave detailed notes so the next person knows where you left off on the task.

4. Don’t burn your bridges

Overall, have a good attitude as your last day approaches. Leaving on a good note will do wonders for you down the road if you ever decide self-employment isn’t for you, and need to get back into the “traditional” working world.

Your ex-boss could be your greatest source of referrals and recommendations for future clients and projects.

5. Be prepared to quit right away

I’ve heard from several friends that although they attempted the highest level of professionalism while resigning, their employer’s were so unhappy that they didn’t allow them to complete their last few weeks of employment.

Before turning in your resignation, make sure you have things lined up so you’re financially prepared to leave that very day if things don’t turn out well.

Leaving your job for the unknowns of self-employment can be quite scary. But if you are adequately prepared and you resign gracefully, it should be a time of excitement rather than fear or negativity.

Following these steps will allow you to quit your job so you can pursue the career you’ve been dreaming of.

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Here’s how to quit your day job gracefully and make sure things go smoothly for everyone involved, so you don't burn any bridges.

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  1. Harmony says:

    Congrats on setting a quit date! It sounds like you have a great plan for a smooth transition. Good point about being prepared to leave the day that you hand in your resignation – I have seen others who had to pack up their desks right away. Best of luck to you!

  2. Syed says:

    Great article and very timely for me since I just gave my resignation a week ago! It was stressful at first because I didn’t know how the higher ups would react, but they’ve been understanding for the most part.

    I really understand the importance of not burning bridges, because in my industry people jump between companies all the time, so I may even end up coming back to my old company or end up working with a former co-worker somewhere else. Maintaining professionalism throughout the process will keep all those bridges intact.

    • Kayla says:

      Maintaining professionalism can be hard at times, but as you said it’s very important. I live in a very rural town and area so these are people I will see around my community on a regular basis. I definitely want to leave on good terms because of that.

  3. Ginger says:

    how has your transition gone, i am only asking because i am preparing to turn in my notice soon to take the steps into working from home.

    • Dee says:

      Very informative article. I plan to quit my full time job in June 2016. I currently have a part time job as well. The full time job is extremely stressful and has made me sick at times. I see that my employer is not going to change I have been making preparations to turn in my notice. I have been saving a significant amount of money just in case I fall short. My part time employment is in the evening so if I do find another part time job or full time I will be available to work. I just know whatever happens I want to be out of there when my target date comes around. I can’t wait! This job has had me on edge mentally and physically; affecting my social life and I don’t feel like myself. I am angry most up the time because my job is so stressful. Everyday is a bad day at that place and that’s not normal. I think I have everything sorted out and will be ready for the transition.

  4. Dee says:

    This article is on point and sort of relates to what I am going to now. I currently work a full time job that I plan to quit June 2016. I also have a part time job. I also have my license as a Nail Technician and Life Insurance Producer. I have been paying off debt and saving an emergency fund just in case I need it due losing income from the full time job. Due to the stress of the full time job I can’t really concentrate on any contract work for self employment. This move is something that I have been planning for at least the past 2 years and I can’t wait!! Thanks for your informative article. It just confirms that I am making the right choice for myself.

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